The Prison Officer Who Nearly Walked Away, Until UFUNUO Helped Her Rediscover Purpose

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The Prison Officer Who Nearly Walked Away, Until UFUNUO Helped Her Rediscover Purpose

8 July 2026

The Prison Officer Who Nearly Walked Away, Until UFUNUO Helped Her Rediscover Purpose

At Clean Start Africa, we have long believed that transforming correctional institutions begins not only with empowering incarcerated women, but also with investing in the people entrusted with their care.
Officer PC Damaris Muthoni Waithira's journey is compelling proof of this belief.
For sixteen years, Officer Damaris has faithfully served in the Kenya Prison Service as a catechist at Kitui Women Prison. Her work extends far beyond routine correctional duties. Every day she leads morning devotions, offers pastoral counselling, conducts biblical programs, prepares women for life after prison, and continues following up with many after their release.
To everyone around her, she was the picture of strength. The one offering guidance. The steady hand.

The Moment She Almost Walked Away

Yet, behind that commitment was someone quietly wrestling with questions about her own future.
"I had already given up."
Four words that Officer Damaris now speaks with remarkable honesty. Four words that should stop us all in our tracks.
Before the UFUNUO program by Clean Start Africa arrived at her workplace, she had decided. She was going to resign. After sixteen years of faithful service, she had convinced herself that greener pastures lay elsewhere, that her purpose had expired, that her contribution no longer mattered.
It is a moment many public servants know intimately but rarely voice: that quiet, desperate point where the work you once loved begins to feel like a cage of its own.
"You are working with people who are traumatized. You are managing conflict. You are absorbing despair. And nobody asks how you are doing," she reflects. "You just keep showing up, until one day, you question why you're showing up at all."
The UFUNUO program found her at that precise crossroads.

A Mirror, Not Just a Manual

What the training offered Officer Damaris was not another certificate to hang on her wall. It was something far more disarming: a mirror.
Rather than simply delivering technical knowledge, the program invited participants on a deeply personal journey of self-discovery. Sessions on stress management, visioning, and goal setting became mirrors through which participants examined not only their professional responsibilities but their own lives.
One exercise, in particular, transformed everything. Participants were asked to draw their future vision.
It sounds deceptively simple.
For Officer Damaris, that exercise became a confrontation with uncomfortable truth.
She realized that many of the struggles she had attributed to circumstances were rooted in something far more personal: the absence of a clear vision and intentional goals.
"I realized most of the mess in my life came because of lack of proper vision and poor goal setting," she reflects with striking clarity. "I realized I was the only one to blame."
Far from being an admission of defeat, it became the moment ownership began. The moment hope started creeping back in.
For the first time in years, she stopped looking outward for answers and started looking inward. She began setting SMART goals. She began asking herself what she truly wanted, rather than simply running from what she no longer wanted.
"The program didn't give me new skills. It gave me back myself," she says. "It reminded me that I have a purpose. And that purpose is not something I have to find outside these walls."

The Young Woman Nobody Listened To

Transformation rarely stays contained. When Officer Damaris began seeing herself differently, she began seeing others differently too.
As her perspective changed, so did the way she engaged with incarcerated women. Instead of seeing behavior alone, she began looking beneath it. Instead of responding quickly, she learned to listen patiently. Instead of assuming, she embraced empathy.
One encounter illustrates this shift with breathtaking clarity.
A young woman had been admitted to the prison after allegedly killing her infant. Many believed she was mentally unstable. Officer Damaris chose a different path. Rather than accepting first impressions, she simply listened.
She spent four counselling sessions creating a safe space for the young woman to tell her story.
Gradually, something remarkable happened. The woman began speaking freely. What looked like psychological instability was, in reality, overwhelming depression and emotional trauma. That discovery did not erase the gravity of the alleged offence.
But it changed the response.
It reminded everyone involved that behind every case file is a human being whose story deserves to be understood. This is precisely what trauma-informed correctional practice looks like. It is not softness. It is not leniency.
It is professional excellence grounded in empathy, understanding, and evidence-based human engagement.
Officer Damaris believes the impact extends well beyond individual counselling sessions.
Through the UFUNUO program, she has witnessed incarcerated women regain hope and dignity. She has seen behaviour improve. She has watched many participants leave prison through decongestion initiatives and Community Service Orders after demonstrating positive behavioral change.

Why More Officers Need UFUNUO

The ripple effect is undeniable.
Officer Damaris is unequivocal about what she wants her colleagues to know:
"I would request every officer to enroll in the UFUNUO program. It has helped me very much."
Her plea is born of lived experience.
When prison officers grow, prison environments change. When prison environments change, rehabilitation becomes possible. When rehabilitation becomes possible, communities become safer. This is why programs like UFUNUO matter.
They strengthen not only individuals but institutions.
They equip officers with practical tools for stress management, communication, emotional intelligence, conflict resolution, and purposeful leadership. They also remind correctional staff that personal growth is not a luxury, it is an essential ingredient of effective rehabilitation.

A Call to Action

For governments seeking more humane and effective correctional systems, Officer Damaris' story offers a powerful lesson: investing in prison staff development produces measurable social returns far beyond prison walls.
For development partners and philanthropists, her journey demonstrates that funding personal transformation inside correctional institutions is one of the most impactful investments you can make.
For fellow prison officers, her message is simple and urgent: Do not wait until you are ready to walk away. Take the step now. Enroll. Show up. Let the program work on you the way it worked on her.
And for all of us who care about justice, rehabilitation, and public safety, the invitation is clear: support programs like UFUNUO. Amplify voices like Officer Damaris'. Invest in the people who hold the keys to transformation.

Rediscovering Purpose 

Perhaps her most powerful words are reserved for those whose generosity made the training possible.
Today, Officer Damaris speaks differently about her future. The dreams of resignation have faded. In their place are SMART goals, a clear vision, and a renewed sense of purpose that radiates in every word she speaks.
"Thanks to the UFUNUO program partners Clean Start Africa and supporters," she says, her voice filled with gratitude. "Because of you, I am today proudly called a prison officer, and I will remain a prison officer, with smart goals, a clear vision, and renewed purpose."
That is the true measure of impact.
Not simply another training completed. Not another certificate awarded. But a public servant rediscovering purpose. A correctional officer choosing hope over resignation. An incarcerated woman finding someone willing to truly listen.
A prison becoming a place where dignity can begin to flourish again. These are the quiet transformations that rarely make headlines, yet they are changing lives every single day.

 

The Invitation Before Us

As Clean Start Africa continues partnering with government through Kenya Prison Service (KPS) under the State Department of Correctional Services, development partners, philanthropic organizations, and well-wishers to strengthen rehabilitation across Kenya's correctional system, Officer Damaris' journey offers a compelling reminder: When we invest in the people who serve within our prisons, we strengthen the very foundation of justice, rehabilitation, and public safety.
So let us continue investing in programs that transform not only those behind bars, but also those entrusted with helping them rebuild their lives.
Because when a prison officer discovers renewed purpose, countless others are given a better chance to discover theirs.


To learn more about the UFUNUO program or to support Clean Start Africa's work, contact us today via email: support@cleanstartafrica.org or call 0769062913. Together, we can ensure that no prison officer and no incarcerated woman has to walk their journey alone.

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